Okay, so this one is going to come across as a little controversial but you’re going to have to bare with me while I get through what I want to share.

We all have an unfair advantage.

Some people are more attractive than others, some are born into wealth and power, some are more intelligent, some win the lotto int heir twenties.

We need to learn to use our unfair advantage, to get ahead.

It’s okay to know you’re prettier than the girl standing next to you and you get to utilise that for social media gain. Especially if you’re a content creator or entrepreneur and need the engagement for your success.

It’s okay if you were given opportunity that others weren’t because your parents built and empire to pass onto you. Stepping into that role doesn’t make you greedy or selfish or a bad person, it just means you had a leg up int he business world to get ahead faster than everyone else because of your parents sacrifice.

It’s okay if you’re Sheldon Cooper level intelligent with a memory like an elephant and you get to outshine everyone in all academic areas. It doesn’t make you a negative know-it-all to know it all. It means you get to spend less time studying to get ahead in your life.

Insecure people are so fast to tear down our advantages.

And it’s because you make them uncomfortable! It’s because they’re not brave enough to use what the universe gave them to get ahead. Do not even allow someone who is prepared to hide in their living room behind a screen to discredit what you have and what you’re doing to seek your success.

I have a solid following on Threads, we’re on track to hit ten thousand in the coming month or so. How I have gotten to that point is by using my two unfair advantages of spiritual mediumship, guys. I just know. Accept it. AND, I am a pretty chick.

Now I know, I know. ‘How vein of me to recognise that I am an attractive person’. Fight me. To the person sitting here reading this, about to comment or say something along the lines of I am stuck up, you’re exactly who I am referring to in this blog. Get off your couch, go out side, and work out what you have that gives you and edge and use it. Stop discrediting those of us who are accepting of ourselves for exactly as we are.

I started behind in life, way behind.

I came from a broken home, under the poverty line, a mother who did the best she could but that was pretty piss poor, I had kidney failure which was diagnosed at eighteen years old.. I have had to fight, tooth and nail to get to where I am and I am sure as shit going to be encouraging the rest of the world to use what they can to give themselves a leg up.

Let’s unpack some examples below.

I posted a TikTok a few days ago.

I have never really invested in TikTok before so most of my posts sit around the 200 view count. This particular day I decided to try something new and posted a humorous video (which is most of my content) but in a bikini.

I have gained 60 new followers, thousands of views and hundreds of likes. The reason being..? I USED my unfair advantage to my benefit. And it worked.

I got engaged two weeks ago.

Since meeting my fiancé, I have been able to retire from a job that was killing me. Recover from my most recent surgery with rest instead of having to go straight back to work to financially support myself. We have saved and invested over a hundred thousand dollars together. We have built a ten year plan for him to retire in his early forties and we travel the world together. I have the ring of my dreams and a life I have always wanted. But how did I use an unfair advantage to get there you might ask.

Well. I am a spiritual medium, I knew this man was coming about a year out and I knew I needed to change a few things about my life to rearrange for him to fit into the life I wanted us to have, so I worked with spirit to make that my reality and ding ding ding, here we are.

I also met my fiancé on Tinder. And for arguments sake I have asked him why he initially swiped right. Give that all my profile has was photos with the cute little star emoji because I am a private gal. It was because I was pretty.

Say what you want – but my fiancé swiped right on my profile because I put photos up there that I looked amazing in. I used my unfair advantages to my benefit to meet the man of my dreams. And I tell you what, my life is bloody brilliant.

So with all of that being said and arguably a few people thinking I am a stuck up pretty girl.. I am going to ask you to think about what your unfair advantage is and how can you use it to your benefit?

I am curious for you.

Sarah x